Exit Planning Tools for Business Owners

Decisions Made from Fear

 
“I’m taking the logos off my trucks. It just makes them a target for personal injury lawyers.”

“I don’t want to put our newest product innovations on our website. The competitors just copy them.”

“We’re creating a human resources LLC so that employees are separated from the rest of our business. That way we’re safer from spurious claims.”

“We pay all of our employees to bring their vehicles back to the yard every night. We don’t want to be responsible for what they do on their own time.”

“We were thinking of opening a new location, but the news says the economy might dip.”

“I thought about hiring another salesperson, but I can’t be sure they’ll pay for themselves.”

“Our margins are shrinking, but a price hike may cost us customers.”  

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When Fear Dictates Decisions

I can’t. We won’t. I shouldn’t.

Sound familiar? These thoughts creep in as your business grows. You’ve overcome a lot already—taking that first leap, pushing through uncertainty, making tough calls when the stakes were high. But now, you have something to lose. The fear of getting it wrong can paralyze progress.

There’s a well-known quote from Elon Musk. When asked, “What words of encouragement would you give to an entrepreneur?” he answered, “If you need words of encouragement, don’t become an entrepreneur.”

Starting a business meant stepping into the unknown. You did it once—and maybe you’ve forgotten how much courage that took.

There’s a saying worth remembering:

“We know about half of what we need to know. Another 25% is stuff we know we don’t know. The last 25% is stuff we don’t know that we don’t know.”

It’s that last 25% that causes the most anxiety. The unknowns we haven’t even considered yet. They can stop us in our tracks.

So we do what feels safest: nothing. Better to protect what we have than risk the comfort of the present for the uncertainty of the future.

But here’s the truth: staying still isn’t safe. It’s just quietly risky.

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Exit Planning: A Different Kind of Fear

Thinking about life after your business? You’re not alone if that brings up more questions than answers:

• What will I do with myself?
• Who am I without this business?
• Will I still feel needed or fulfilled?

That’s why most business owners don’t have an exit plan. It’s not urgent, it’s not easy—and frankly, it’s intimidating.

But the transition will come. The sooner you face it, the more options you’ll have—and the better prepared you’ll be.

This is where an experienced advisor is invaluable. A good advisor doesn’t just help you plan for exit—they help you clarify your goals, address the unknowns, and convert fear into forward motion.

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Turn Unknowns Into Strategy

Entrepreneurs are natural goal-setters. You’re wired to chase progress. With the right guidance, the fears that hold you back become challenges you can tackle.

Working with an advisor brings structure to uncertainty. It moves you from:

• “I don’t know where to start” to “Here’s the next step.”
• “What if I make the wrong decision?” to “I’m making informed choices.”

You’ve already taken one of the boldest risks in starting your business. Don’t let fear dictate what comes next.

Partner with someone who knows the road ahead—and can help you navigate it.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

Do You Suffer From Decision Addiction?

Do you suffer from decision addiction?

The typical business owner lives on dopamine.  According to WebMD:

Dopamine is a type of neurotransmitter. Your body makes it, and your nervous system uses it to send messages between nerve cells. That’s why it’s sometimes called a chemical messenger. Dopamine plays a role in how we feel pleasure. It’s a big part of our uniquely human ability to think and plan.

Feeling the Rush

That’s what business owners do; think and plan. Their lives are a chain of thought processes that go “What if I do this? How will it affect the business? Then what would I do next? What would be the effect of that?”

An owner’s brain is trained to generate dopamine. That “What if? What if? What if?” chain is pleasurable. It’s the same neurotransmitter that is triggered by nicotine and alcohol, and the craving for that dopamine rush is the driving force of addiction.

That is why so many owners complain that their employees can’t make decisions and can’t think critically. They understand consciously that their businesses would run better if they groomed decision-makers, but unconsciously they are addicted to making decisions.

decision addictionEvery time an employee asks, “What should I do about this, boss?” there is a little rush. It’s like an old cartoon. The good angel is sitting on one shoulder saying “Make them go through the thought process themselves.” The little horned devil is on the other shoulder saying “Go ahead. Tell him just this once. It’s faster, and it feels good.”

Answer given. Another challenge surmounted. Pop! The little rush.

When the Rush Gets in the Way

Advisors are frequently frustrated by a client’s reluctance to implement their advice. They spend time and effort developing a course of action, and more time and effort explaining it to the client. The business owner client listens, agrees, and then does…nothing.

“I’m too busy running the business,” is a frequent excuse. What is really happening is that the owner is too busy feeding his or her dopamine rush. Owners are more likely to take action on their own decisions. Implementing someone else’s idea is antithetical to why they became entrepreneurs in the first place.

It feels good to be needed; to be the one who knows. Unfortunately, the more you run your business based on owner centricity™ the harder it is to sell, and the less it is worth. Like any addiction, it’s a tough habit to break

Breaking Decision Addiction

This is where I should offer a twelve-step program for breaking yourself of decision addiction. That’s pushing the analogy just a bit too far. I can. however, offer one tip that can get you started on the road to a more valuable company and more peace of mind for you.

Offer an enticing incentive for anyone making a decision for you. It should be instant, and worth a little effort. One possibility is to keep a stock of ten or twenty dollar bills in your desk. Anyone who comes to you with an issue and a proposed answer gets a bill.

The answer had to be sensible and practical. You could require it to be SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Resourced and Timely,) or you could set your standards. You will, of course, have to retain the final say over what qualifies. No one should earn a ten-spot for deciding whether to make the background on a flyer blue or yellow.

An answer doesn’t have to be the answer, but if it is unworkable, at least you have the opportunity to communicate your thought process, and at least the employee tried. He or she should still get the incentive for an honest effort.

Try it. You may be surprised at how much better it feels than that little bit of decision addiction.

This is an excerpt from my upcoming book The Exit Planning Coach’s Handbook, coming this fall. 

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.