Exit Planning Tools for Business Owners

The 3% Problem in Advisory Work: A Guide for Business Owners

 
As a business owner, you belong to a unique group that makes up only 3% of the population. Yet, many advisors treat you like any other client—using the same approaches they apply to executives, professionals, or retirees. This is a fundamental misunderstanding that can impact your business and personal goals.

Why You’re More Than Just an Asset

You are not simply a high-income individual with concentrated wealth. Your business is not just an investment; it’s an integral part of your identity, your livelihood, and your daily purpose. It is the source of your authority, reputation, and even your personal satisfaction.

Navigating Identity, Not Just Assets

When traditional clients seek advice, the focus tends to be on optimizing their assets. In contrast, advising business owners like you involves navigating a complex web of identity and emotional attachment. This distinction is crucial and affects how you engage with advisors.

Understanding the Owner’s Perspective

The Structure of Your Business

Unlike executives who operate within established frameworks, you are the architect of your business’s structure. If a senior executive makes a mistake, it usually impacts their bonus. But for you, a misstep could jeopardize payroll, credit lines, or even your family’s financial security.

This creates a protective and cautious mindset that many advisors fail to recognize. Your business is not just an income engine; it’s something you’ve built, defended, and refined over years. Every employee, system, and brand element bears your imprint.

The Impact of Structural Suggestions

When an advisor casually suggests changes, it can feel less like strategy and more like criticism. Understanding this emotional landscape is vital; without it, you may resist recommendations that could genuinely benefit your business.

The Challenge of Decision-Making

As a successful entrepreneur, you are wired for decision-making. The constant loop of “What if we tried this?” fuels your creativity and drive. However, many traditional advisory engagements can lead to implementation failures:

1. Data Analysis: The advisor reviews your business metrics.
2. Recommendations: They develop a plan based on their findings.
3. Owner Response: You agree with the plan—but then take no action.

This isn’t about disagreement; it’s about ownership. You’re more likely to implement decisions you help create. This is why coaching before advisory work is essential, especially in exit planning.

Identity: The Key Variable in Exit Planning

Advisors often zoom in on valuation, tax efficiency, and succession logistics. While these aspects are important, the critical question you must consider is:

“What will you do when you no longer own this business?”

If your answer is vague—like “I’ll figure it out later” or “I’ll travel” —then your exit plan is likely incomplete. Liquidity without purpose can lead to regrets.

The Realities of Post-Exit Life

Research shows that 75% of former business owners report dissatisfaction a year after exiting. This is rarely due to financial shortcomings; it’s often because they haven’t redefined their identity.

As a business owner, you are exiting more than just an asset—you are relinquishing your relevance. Recognizing this early in your planning can lead to far better outcomes.

Conclusion: A Call to Action for Business Owners

Navigating the complexities of your business and its impact on your identity requires a unique approach from advisors. By understanding the emotional and psychological aspects of ownership, you can foster more meaningful relationships with your advisors.

If you’re contemplating exit strategies or want to redefine your post-business identity, consider engaging with a coach or advisor who recognizes these unique dynamics. Your business is your legacy; make sure your exit plan honors that.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

The Exit Planning Fallacy – A Business Owner’s Perspective

 
One of the most common sales pitches you might hear from someone claiming to help you “enhance value” goes something like this:

“I’ve reviewed your company and believe it’s worth $4.2 million today. With the right planning, it could be worth $7.7 million. Would you rather exit with $4.2 million or $7.7 million?”

That’s not really a question—it’s a setup. Of course, no business owner would willingly choose the smaller number. But the real issue isn’t which number you prefer. It’s what it actually takes to bridge that gap—and whether you’re being given a full picture.

Are You Falling for the Planning Fallacy?


There’s a psychological term for this overly optimistic way of thinking: the planning fallacy.

A private equity investors group I follow, Chenmark.com, once cited a study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology that perfectly illustrates the concept:

From a psychological perspective, the planning fallacy can perhaps be studied most profitably at the level of daily activities. Consider one familiar example: Academics who carry home a stuffed briefcase full of work on Fridays, fully intending to complete every task, are often aware that they have never gone beyond the first one or two jobs on any previous weekend.

The intriguing aspect of this phenomenon is the ability of people to hold two seemingly contradictory beliefs: Although aware that most of their previous predictions were overly optimistic, they believe that their current forecasts are realistic. It seems that people can know the past and still be doomed to repeat it.

What’s fascinating is that they know this pattern. Yet, every weekend, they’re sure this time will be different. Business owners do something similar: despite knowing how long things usually take (and how unpredictable growth can be), we still believe “this time” will follow our best-case forecast.

You may hear that big valuation potential and think, “Yes, that’s what I’ve always wanted—to grow the company by 83%! I just needed a plan.”

But a plan alone isn’t enough. It’s a start—but not the whole story.

What Really Closes the Gap?


Let’s reframe that optimistic pitch with a more realistic one:

“To grow from $4.2 million to $7.7 million in five years, you’ll need proper planning, dedicated effort, some strategic hires, and reinvesting a significant portion of your profits. That requires growing the business 19% annually—starting immediately. That’s more than double your best year to date. If you spend a year building that foundation first, then you’d need to grow at least 25% annually over the next four years. If you keep growing at your best year’s rate of 7.5%, it will take over 12 years to reach that goal.”

Those are the facts. And the reality is that very few business owners hit those growth rates without serious changes—and trusted advisors to help them.

The Power of Perspective (and the Right Guide)


You may have a solid company. It supports your lifestyle, your employees, and your reputation. Maybe you’ve even dreamed of taking it further. But the risks, the effort, or the lack of a clear roadmap have held you back.

That’s exactly where experienced advisors come in—not to promise easy gains, but to help you map a realistic path to your goals. They help align what you want (your proceeds), with what you’re willing to do (your effort), in the time you have left (your exit timeline).

In our work, we use a Value Gap coaching model that considers four essential pieces:

1. Current business value
2. Your desired outcome—not just “more,” but a specific number
3. The timeframe in which you want to exit
4. The required growth rate to get there

Often, once those last two are on the table, the conversation changes. It’s not just about the money—it’s about what you’re willing and able to do to get there.

The real planning fallacy? Believing it’s just about hitting a number. The truth is, getting the outcome you want depends on understanding the full picture—and working with an advisor who helps you navigate it honestly, strategically, and with clarity.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

Build a Successful Business Exit Plan by Using a Planning Process

 
As a business owner, planning the exit from ownership of your business is probably the single most important decision you will make. When to exit, how much to walk away with, who to sell it to, what’s the most tax efficient strategy in your circumstance, what timeline is most suitable, and what are the areas of business that need to be improved upon to make it marketable, etc.? Those are just some of the things that need to be considered.

The challenge for many business owners is they don’t want to think about it until they’re absolutely ready to exit. The problem with that is, you won’t know when that will be, and it may happen unexpectedly, due to health and so forth. Furthermore, and especially with “baby boomer” owners, their business is everything to them – They don’t want to think about letting go, so they put it off. Plus, even if they do sell, what are they going to do when running their business isn’t with them every day. – What’s going to be their purpose when that comes to an end? So, they put it off, and when they decide to exit, the business may be unprepared to sell, the market may not be favorable, or they won’t get the price that they thought they would.

All of what I just mentioned, can be addressed or avoided with the proper business exit plan. A proper business exit plan should be done by applying an organized process. It is also important to remember that building a solid exit plan takes time. It’s nothing that you simply flip a switch, and presto, you have a solid exit plan. There are many things to consider, advisors you need to bring in the mix, data that needs to be collected, and analysis that needs to be performed.

Over the years in consulting my business owner clients, I have developed a “business exit planning process.” The diagram below is an illustration of that process. It breaks the process into three separate phases: “Create A Game Plan”, “Plan Development”, and “Implementation.”
 

The “Create a Game Plan” phase is the initial phase of the exit planning process. This includes completing an exit plan assessment, which determines what areas you will need to address in order of priority, determining your vision for the future (after you have exited), how much you will need to walk away with, whether to sell to a third party or an insider, performing a preliminary valuation, and assembling your team of advisors.

For performing an exit plan assessment, I use a tool called “ExitMap”, which is a handy tool and takes the client 15 to 20 minutes to complete. Determining your vision for your future, is a discussion of the owner’s life after the business. That is an important discussion and may be a transition that needs to be planned for over a period of time. “Letting go” doesn’t come easy for some business owners. In fact, there are even tests now that can help determine how you will handle it when that time comes, and what to do about it. There is a consultant firm in Southern California, by the name of “Orange Kiwi” that specializes in that type of consulting. Determining how much you need to “walk away with”, involves analyzing how much you will need to live your life after the business and the goals you want to accomplish that require financial resources, and how much you have accumulated outside of the business. This will determine the dollar amount that you will need to walk away with, from the business. This is then compared to the preliminary valuation which reveals the “gap”. For instance, if you need to walk away with $3 – $5 million net after expenses and taxes, and your business is currently worth approximately $2 million, then the “gap” is $1 million to $3 million.

This leads us to performing a “preliminary valuation”, which is an informal valuation and costs a fraction of a formal valuation. It is a necessary step in order to determine where you stand and how much of a financial gap exists. Finally, the last step in this phase, is forming your team of advisors. Exit planning is a team sport, and you need the right people/advisors on your team – Professionals who are experienced and who are willing to work together. The diagram below shows a number of potential advisors, an owner may need a few of them or many of them at different times.


 

The “Plan Development” phase includes the gathering of data, the development of a draft plan, the development of a final draft plan, and establishing a plan of action which includes setting time tables, delegating tasks to advisors, and so forth. When we gather data, there are many areas to gather from. This includes the financials, performing a 5-year cash flow analysis, a 5-year cash flow projection and a host of other metrics, client base analysis, re- occurring income, etc. The draft plan is a starting point of a plan. It is reviewed by all of the participating advisors, which may include the C.P.A., the business broker or investment banker, the out-sourced C.F.O., estate planning attorney, tax attorney or business attorney, and so on. Depending on your particular situation, some or many of these advisors may be included.

The “Implementation phase” of the planning process includes “managing the action steps”, and revising the plan as needed, performing a formal business valuation (one that holds up in the negotiation of the sale), positioning the company for sale or inside transition, and the liquidity event, or the actual sale.

Managing the action steps is critical, because plan execution is critical. It’s one thing to develop a plan, but implementing it properly is crucial in a successful outcome. The exit planning professional can help an owner with that, so that he or she does not get consumed by it and can continue to work on the business. Performing a final valuation is required, which is a solid valuation to include in the sale of the company and also for tax purposes. Positioning the company for sale is where a business broker or a merger & acquisition professional comes in. They are the ones who will position the company for sale, put the company to market, and help to finalize a sale. It’s better if they are included earlier on.

It is also where the implementation of structuring the company ownership comes in. Meaning, what is the best way to position the ownership of the company to achieve the most tax efficient transaction. For instance, utilizing special trusts that avoid state taxes upon the sale of the company. But, that is for a future discussion.

Then comes the liquidity event or the actual sale of the business. It often doesn’t come easy and negotiating with a third party can be grueling and time consuming. But the better you have planned and prepared, the better the outcomes will most likely be.

My intention of this article is to point out a few things: One, the best way to develop an exit plan is by applying a process. Two, exit planning takes time. Three, exit planning is a team sport and requires the careful selection of advisors. And four, exit planning is a serious subject and requires a thorough discussion – more than a discussion with your local C.P.A., although a C.P.A. is a critical advisor in the exit planning process.

Steven Zeller is a Certified Business Exit Planner, Certified Financial Planner, Accredited Investment Fiduciary, and Co-Founder and President of Zeller Kern Wealth Advisors. He advises business owners with developing exit plans, increasing business value, employee retention, executive bonus plans, etc. He can be reached at szeller@zellerkern.com

Purpose – Life After the Sale Part 3


The third component of life after the sale is Purpose – “Having as one’s intention or objective.”

Many exit planning advisors discuss the three legs of the exit planning stool – business readiness, financial readiness, and personal readiness. In our previous two articles, we focused on two of the “big three” components of a successful life after the sale, activity and identity. The third is purpose.

So many advisors point to the 75% of former owners who “profoundly regret” their transition, and say it’s because they didn’t make enough money. To quote Mr. Bernstein in the great film Citizen Kane, “Well, it’s no trick to make a lot of money…if all you want is to make a lot of money.”

I’ve interviewed hundreds of business founders. When asked why they started their companies, by far the most common answers are about providing for their families and having control of their future. Only a very small percentage say “I wanted to make a lot of money.”

Decades of Purpose

Purpose - Life After the Sale Part 3So what kept them working long hours and pushing the envelope after they had reached primary, secondary, and even tertiary financial goals? Sure, non-owners may chalk it up to greed, but Maslov’s hierarchy of needs drifts away from material rewards after the first two levels. Belonging, Self-Esteem and Self-Actualization may all have a financial component, but money isn’t the driver.

For most owners, the driving motivation is this thing they’ve built. The company has a life of its own, but it’s a life they bestowed. They talk about the business’s growing pains and maturity. Owners are acutely aware of the multiplier effect the success of the company has on employees and their families. In a few cases, that multiplier extends to entire towns.

That’s the purpose. To nurture and expand. In so many cases every process in the business was the founder’s creation. He or she picked out the furniture and designed the first logo. This aggregation of people breathes and succeeds on what the owner built.

That’s why so many owners still put in 50 or more hours a week, long after there is any real need for their presence. This thing they created is their purpose.

Life After the Sale

Unsurprisingly, so many owners find that 36 holes of golf each week, or 54, or 72, still isn’t enough to feel fulfilled. You can get incrementally better, but it doesn’t really affect anyone but you. Building a beautiful table or catching a trophy fish brings pride and some sense of accomplishment. Still, it never matches the feeling of creating something that impacts dozens, scores, or hundreds of other human beings.

That’s why we focus on purpose as the third leg of the personal vision. In the vast majority of cases, it involves impacting other people. Any owner spent a career learning how to teach and lead. Keeping those skills fresh and growing is a substantial part of the road to satisfaction.

Purpose in your life after the sale may involve church or a community service organization. It could be serving on a Board of Directors or consulting for other business owners. It might be writing or speaking. Purpose doesn’t require a 50-hour week, but it does require some level of commitment, and the ability to affect the lives of others.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

Private Equity and Privately Held Businesses

 
Depending on who you are talking to, Private Equity is either the Great Satan or the savior of small and mid-market companies in the United States. The stories depend a lot on the personal experience of the speakers.

Once a vehicle for high-risk investment plays in corporate takeovers (see Bryan Burrough’s Barbarians at the Gate,) Private Equity has morphed into tranches where specialists seek opportunities in everything from a Main Street entrepreneurship to multi-billion-dollar entities.

What is Private Equity?

The term itself is relatively generic. According to Pitchbook, there are currently 17,000 Private Equity Groups (or PEGs) operating in the US. The accepted business model for our purposes is a limited partnership that raises money to invest in closely held companies. The purpose is plain. Well-run private businesses typically produce a better return on investment than publicly traded entities.

The current Price to Earnings (or PE – just to be a little more confusing) ratio of the S&P 500 is about 27.5. This is after a long bull market has raised stock prices considerably. The ratio is up 11.5% in the last year. That means the average stock currently returns 3.6% profit on its price. Of course, the profits are not usually distributed to the shareholders in their entirety.

Compare that to the 18% to 25% return many PEGs promise their investors. It’s easy to see why they are a favorite of high net worth individuals, hedge funds and family offices. As the Private Equity industry has matured and diversified, they have even drawn investment from the usually more conservative government and union pension funds.

Private Equity Types

Among those 17,000 PEGs the types range from those who have billions in “dry powder” (investable capital,) to some who claim to know of investors who would probably put money into a good deal if asked. Of course, which type of PEG you are dealing with is important information for an owner considering an offer.

private equity moneyThe “typical” PEG as most people know it has a fund for acquisitions. It may be their first, or it may be the latest of many funds they’ve raised. This fund invests in privately held businesses. Traditionally PEGs in the middle market space would only consider companies with a free cash flow of $1,000,000 or greater. That left a plethora of smaller businesses out of the game.

For a dozen years I’ve been writing about the pending flood of exiting Boomers faced with a lack of willing and able buyers. I should have known better. Business abhors a vacuum.

Searchfunders

Faced with an overabundance of sellers and a dearth of capable buyers, Private Equity spawned a new model to take advantage of the market, the Searchfunders. These are typically younger individuals, many of whom graduated from one of the “EBA” (Entrepreneurship By Acquisition) programs now offered by almost two dozen business schools.

These programs teach would-be entrepreneurs how to seek out capital, structure deals, and conduct due diligence. Some Searchfunders are “funded”, meaning they have investors putting up a stipend for their expenses. Others are “self-funded.” They find a deal, and then negotiate with investment funds to back them financially.

Both PEGs and Searchfunders seek “platform” companies, those that have experienced management or sufficiently strong operational systems to absorb “add-on” or “tuck-in” acquisitions. The costs of a transaction have bumped many seasoned PEGs into $2,000,000 and up as a cash flow requirement. Searchfunders have happily moved into the $500,000 to $2,000,000 market.

In the next article we’ll discuss how PEGs can promise returns that are far beyond the profitability of the businesses they buy.

 

 
John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.