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The 3% Problem in Advisory Work: A Guide for Business Owners

June 3, 2026 by John F. Dini

As a business owner, you belong to a unique group that makes up only 3% of the population. Yet, many advisors treat you like any other client—using the same approaches they apply to executives, professionals, or retirees. This is a fundamental misunderstanding that can impact your business and personal goals.

Why You’re More Than Just an Asset

You are not simply a high-income individual with concentrated wealth. Your business is not just an investment; it’s an integral part of your identity, your livelihood, and your daily purpose. It is the source of your authority, reputation, and even your personal satisfaction.

Navigating Identity, Not Just Assets

When traditional clients seek advice, the focus tends to be on optimizing their assets. In contrast, advising business owners like you involves navigating a complex web of identity and emotional attachment. This distinction is crucial and affects how you engage with advisors.

Understanding the Owner’s Perspective

The Structure of Your Business

Unlike executives who operate within established frameworks, you are the architect of your business’s structure. If a senior executive makes a mistake, it usually impacts their bonus. But for you, a misstep could jeopardize payroll, credit lines, or even your family’s financial security.

This creates a protective and cautious mindset that many advisors fail to recognize. Your business is not just an income engine; it’s something you’ve built, defended, and refined over years. Every employee, system, and brand element bears your imprint.

The Impact of Structural Suggestions

When an advisor casually suggests changes, it can feel less like strategy and more like criticism. Understanding this emotional landscape is vital; without it, you may resist recommendations that could genuinely benefit your business.

The Challenge of Decision-Making

As a successful entrepreneur, you are wired for decision-making. The constant loop of “What if we tried this?” fuels your creativity and drive. However, many traditional advisory engagements can lead to implementation failures:

1. Data Analysis: The advisor reviews your business metrics.
2. Recommendations: They develop a plan based on their findings.
3. Owner Response: You agree with the plan—but then take no action.

This isn’t about disagreement; it’s about ownership. You’re more likely to implement decisions you help create. This is why coaching before advisory work is essential, especially in exit planning.

Identity: The Key Variable in Exit Planning

Advisors often zoom in on valuation, tax efficiency, and succession logistics. While these aspects are important, the critical question you must consider is:

“What will you do when you no longer own this business?”

If your answer is vague—like “I’ll figure it out later” or “I’ll travel” —then your exit plan is likely incomplete. Liquidity without purpose can lead to regrets.

The Realities of Post-Exit Life

Research shows that 75% of former business owners report dissatisfaction a year after exiting. This is rarely due to financial shortcomings; it’s often because they haven’t redefined their identity.

As a business owner, you are exiting more than just an asset—you are relinquishing your relevance. Recognizing this early in your planning can lead to far better outcomes.

Conclusion: A Call to Action for Business Owners

Navigating the complexities of your business and its impact on your identity requires a unique approach from advisors. By understanding the emotional and psychological aspects of ownership, you can foster more meaningful relationships with your advisors.

If you’re contemplating exit strategies or want to redefine your post-business identity, consider engaging with a coach or advisor who recognizes these unique dynamics. Your business is your legacy; make sure your exit plan honors that.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

Exit Planning: If Not Now, When?

May 14, 2026 by John F. Dini

You’ve probably said it yourself: “Talk to me in five years.”

It’s the most common response advisors hear — and it makes sense. You’re heads-down building, not winding down. Exit planning feels like a conversation for later. The business is performing. You have time. And honestly, it’s a lot to think about.

But here’s the uncomfortable truth: later is exactly when most exits go wrong.

You’re already doing exit planning — just not deliberately

Think about the early-stage tech founder. Obsessed with product, grinding 80-hour weeks, convinced the exit is the last thing they should be thinking about. Yet their investors demand an exit strategy on day one — not because they plan to push the founder out, but because articulating the end game forces clarity on everything else.

How does the business scale beyond you personally? What leadership structure does a bigger organization need? What changes in operations and governance will sustain growth? Which decisions build value, and how will that value eventually be realized?

These aren’t exit questions. They’re the right business questions — and exit planning forces you to ask them.

As a privately held owner, no investor is requiring this of you. That’s both a freedom and a vulnerability. Your emotional investment in the business is real. But the business itself has no such attachment. If it succeeds, it needs to run without depending entirely on you. In fact, the more successful it becomes, the less it can afford to.

“I’m focused on building the business,” but building toward what?

Once your personal financial security is solid, continued growth primarily serves the business, not you. That’s fine — but it’s worth naming. Businesses don’t fail because they reach maturity. They fail because transitions are mismanaged.

Exit planning isn’t just a pricing conversation. What your business is worth matters, of course. But equally important — and often ignored — is whether you are ready for life after the business, and whether your organization is ready for new leadership and ownership.

Miss either of those, and even a strong headline valuation won’t save the outcome.

A real exit plan works on three things at once:

1. Enterprise value: what drives it, and how to grow it
2. Owner readiness: your financial and personal preparation for what comes next
3. Organizational readiness: the people, systems, and structure that make the business transferable

It’s a serious undertaking. Which is exactly why the right time to start isn’t in five years.

It’s now.

What to Watch Out for When Getting Outside Advice

April 28, 2026 by John F. Dini

When you bring in an outside advisor — whether it’s an accountant, attorney, consultant, or broker — you’re doing the right thing. You’re acknowledging there’s something you don’t know and going to find someone who does. That’s smart ownership.

But there’s a trap hidden in that process that most business owners never see coming.

Every Expert Has a Favorite Tool

There’s an old saying: to a hammer, everything is a nail.

Think about it this way. You go to your doctor and say, “My shoulder has been killing me — I need help.” The doctor genuinely wants to help you. But whether you walk out with a prescription, a surgery date, a chiropractic adjustment, or a set of acupuncture needles depends less on what’s actually best for your shoulder — and more on which type of doctor you happened to walk in to see.

The internist reaches for anti-inflammatories. The orthopedic surgeon schedules an operation. Each one treats your pain. Each one probably helps. But you’ll likely never realize that your treatment was shaped by who you chose to see, not by some universal best practice for shoulder injuries.

The same thing happens when business owners seek outside help.

The Advisor You Hire Shapes the Advice You Get

When it comes to something as significant as planning your exit from a business, the type of advisor you engage will heavily influence the direction you’re pointed — often without you realizing it.

Bring in an accountant and the plan will likely center on minimizing your tax burden. Hire an attorney and you’ll probably end up focused on asset protection or employment contracts. Work with a business consultant and the conversation will revolve around improving operations and boosting profitability.

None of that advice is wrong. But it may not be complete — and it may not actually align with what you’re trying to accomplish in your life.

A few years ago, a business broker added “Exit Planner” to his business card. When asked how he approached exit planning, his answer was straightforward: if an owner would agree to accept 100% seller financing, he’d help them sell. That was his tool, and he applied it to every situation.

To a hammer, everything is a nail.

What This Means for You

Before you take any advisor’s recommendation and run with it, it’s worth asking yourself: Is this the best solution for my situation — or is it the best solution this particular advisor knows how to deliver?

That’s not cynicism. Most advisors genuinely want to help. But their training, their experience, and frankly their business model all point them toward certain kinds of answers.

The best advisors — the ones worth your time and money — will ask a lot of questions before they start offering solutions. They’ll slow down, make sure they understand your real objectives, and resist the urge to jump straight to their preferred tool.

If an advisor walks into your first meeting already knowing what you need, that’s worth paying attention to. The clarity that comes from being genuinely heard saves time, prevents costly missteps, and leads to a plan you’ll actually follow through on.

The right advice starts with the right questions — not the other way around.

Manufacturer Stuck in the “Neutral Zone”

March 6, 2026 by John F. Dini

Here is how exit planning helped a business owner out of the Neutral Zone.

This manufacturer reached out to an exit planning consultant after receiving a book on planning as a gift from a local professional. He was in no particular hurry to leave his business. In the preceding twenty years of ownership, he had grown it from a local vendor to home builders into a nationally known specialty house.

The company provided him with a good living, generating roughly $700,000 a year in free cash flow for each of the previous five years. He wanted to continue for at least a few more years but also was concerned that he do the right things to maximize his price when the time came to move on.

What’s the Problem?

The consultant pointed out several issues that could dramatically impact his eventual transition.

First, he was handling too many duties that should be delegated. These weren’t things that required his special expertise, but rather areas where he was comfortable in just “taking care of it.” These included troubleshooting IT problems. Although the company had a full-service contract for those services with an outside vendor, he felt it was just “faster” if he first tried to fix the issue himself. Owner centricity is a major value killer in a sale.

On large orders, he prepared the price quotes personally. There were several employees in the sales department who did the majority of quotes, but after one had made an expensive error, the owner took any order over a certain dollar amount as his personal responsibility.

The consultant also pointed out that the business was in the “Neutral Zone” regarding profitability as the principal factor in valuation. With $700,000 in cash flow, it was too big for most entrepreneurial owner-operators to afford.

On the other hand, it was too small to attract a private equity or strategic buyer. Professional acquirers typically pay higher multiples but are seldom interested in acquisitions with less than $1,000,000 in cash flow.

Longer-Term Preparation

The owner retained the consultant as a coach to keep him on track as he addressed the issues. In the next few years, the company made a small acquisition resulting in a second location and greater production capacity. They hired a sales manager who could handle major quotes. At the exit planner’s recommendation, the owner implemented EOS with a different consultant for greater accountability in the management team.

A key employee who, like the owner, had also been a “jack of all trades” enjoyed an incentive program based solely on the company’s gross profit over a fixed level. The consultant pointed out that the improvements driving growth would very quicky make this employee wealthy without any increase in responsibilities. Fortunately, the employee resigned for personal reasons before this became an issue.

For the other employees, they installed new incentive programs based more on increasing profitability. Key employees also received stay bonuses and long-term synthetic equity incentives. This initially caused some concern, (“Are you selling the business?”) but that quickly died down when it became plain that no changes were imminent.

Breaking Out of the Neutral Zone

The next five years brought ups and downs. COVID first reduced sales, then created a surge that couldn’t be duplicated. Eventually the company settled into a sustainable growth pattern, reaching well over $1,000,000 in EBITDA. Of course, there were multiple inquiries about selling during this period. However, the owner felt none of them satisfied his goals for a rewarding life after the business.

His efforts to change the value of his business were driven by the clear personal objectives developed with the planner, rather than just a pursuit of growth for growth’s sake. Eventually he agreed to sell the business to a strategic acquirer for roughly twice the value of an appraisal that was done at the beginning of the process.

None of the changes made were earth-shaking. Having a goal, the means to track it and a framework for moving towards it translated into millions of additional dollars in the owner’s pocket. He was comfortable with a transaction that also preserved his legacy and his employees’ futures.

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The Inexperienced Advisor – An Exit Planning Horror Story for Business Owners

November 18, 2025 by John F. Dini

This is a cautionary tale for business owners—one that’s “based on a true story.” The facts are real, although the exact sequence of events might raise questions if the IRS were to take a closer look.

A small business owner received a $1,000,000 offer to sell his company. He had already been thinking about retirement, and the chance to cash out felt like a perfect opportunity. His original plan had been to sell the business to a long-time employee through a promissory note, but that changed when the cash offer came along.

The business’s profits had always been modest, and the employee couldn’t match the offer. But the owner felt deep appreciation for the employee’s loyalty and past contributions. The employee already owned 10% of the stock, and the owner decided to reward him further by gifting an additional 10% just before the sale.

When the deal closed a few weeks later, they divided the proceeds: the owner received $800,000, and the employee got $200,000.

Here’s where things began to unravel.

The company’s tax preparer was a long-time friend of the owner—also his bookkeeper—who had served him faithfully for over 30 years. Their arrangement worked well for general business needs, and the owner saved money on fees. But the employee used a different advisor. And when tax season rolled around, that advisor raised some critical issues.

Let’s break it down.

The Letter of Intent was signed in January. The additional 10% stock was granted in February. The transaction closed in March. The valuation had been set by the sale offer, but little formal documentation existed for the transfer. The employee’s advisor flagged that the gifted stock constituted a $100,000 bonus—meaning it was taxed as ordinary income. At a 25% tax bracket, that single item triggered a $25,000 IRS bill.

Next came the issue of the company’s structure-

For years, the tax preparer had advised switching to an S Corporation, but the owner never followed through—it seemed like too much hassle. So the company remained a C Corporation and was subject to 21% corporate tax before distributions.

That meant the employee’s $200,000 had to be recalculated. His share was now about $158,000 after corporate taxes.

Of that amount, the original 10% was eligible for long-term capital gains treatment (20% rate), but the recently gifted 10% was double taxed: as short-term capital gain (at his 25% rate) and hit with a 20% parachute payment excise tax because of its proximity to the sale.

He paid nearly $55,000 in taxes just on that second 10%. And the hits kept coming.

With total compensation now over $200,000, the employee’s payout was subject to the 3.8% Net Investment Income tax (the “Obamacare” surcharge). And he still owed that initial $25,000 from the stock bonus.

When all the math was finished, his $200,000 “windfall” ended up being worth only $70,746.

That’s an effective tax rate of nearly 65%.

And the owner? He was double taxed, too. His “cut-rate” accounting services and the decision to avoid S Corporation status ended up costing far more than they saved.

Could it have gone differently? Absolutely.

For a relatively small investment in expert guidance, they might have restructured the transaction. For instance, compensating the employee with a cash bonus instead of stock would have made the payment deductible to the company, taxed only once as ordinary income to the employee.

But none of that was considered—because there was no experienced advisor at the table.

If you’re considering selling your business, don’t go it alone.

Exit planning isn’t just about getting a good offer—it’s about protecting your value and avoiding costly mistakes. Engage with a seasoned advisor who understands the tax, legal, and strategic layers of a business transition.

The cost of advice is small compared to what it could save you.

-Special thanks to Steven A. Bankler, CPA, for his help with this article.