Exit Planning Tools for Business Owners

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Decisions Made from Fear

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“I’m taking the logos off my trucks. It just makes them a target for personal injury lawyers.”

“I don’t want to put our newest product innovations on our website. The competitors just copy them.”

“We’re creating a human resources LLC so that employees are separated from the rest of our business. That way we’re safer from spurious claims.”

“We pay all of our employees to bring their vehicles back to the yard every night. We don’t want to be responsible for what they do on their own time.”

“We were thinking of opening a new location, but the news says the economy might dip.”

“I thought about hiring another salesperson, but I can’t be sure they’ll pay for themselves.”

“Our margins are shrinking, but a price hike may cost us customers.”  

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When Fear Dictates Decisions

I can’t. We won’t. I shouldn’t.

Sound familiar? These thoughts creep in as your business grows. You’ve overcome a lot already—taking that first leap, pushing through uncertainty, making tough calls when the stakes were high. But now, you have something to lose. The fear of getting it wrong can paralyze progress.

There’s a well-known quote from Elon Musk. When asked, “What words of encouragement would you give to an entrepreneur?” he answered, “If you need words of encouragement, don’t become an entrepreneur.”

Starting a business meant stepping into the unknown. You did it once—and maybe you’ve forgotten how much courage that took.

There’s a saying worth remembering:

“We know about half of what we need to know. Another 25% is stuff we know we don’t know. The last 25% is stuff we don’t know that we don’t know.”

It’s that last 25% that causes the most anxiety. The unknowns we haven’t even considered yet. They can stop us in our tracks.

So we do what feels safest: nothing. Better to protect what we have than risk the comfort of the present for the uncertainty of the future.

But here’s the truth: staying still isn’t safe. It’s just quietly risky.

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Exit Planning: A Different Kind of Fear

Thinking about life after your business? You’re not alone if that brings up more questions than answers:

• What will I do with myself?
• Who am I without this business?
• Will I still feel needed or fulfilled?

That’s why most business owners don’t have an exit plan. It’s not urgent, it’s not easy—and frankly, it’s intimidating.

But the transition will come. The sooner you face it, the more options you’ll have—and the better prepared you’ll be.

This is where an experienced advisor is invaluable. A good advisor doesn’t just help you plan for exit—they help you clarify your goals, address the unknowns, and convert fear into forward motion.

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Turn Unknowns Into Strategy

Entrepreneurs are natural goal-setters. You’re wired to chase progress. With the right guidance, the fears that hold you back become challenges you can tackle.

Working with an advisor brings structure to uncertainty. It moves you from:

• “I don’t know where to start” to “Here’s the next step.”
• “What if I make the wrong decision?” to “I’m making informed choices.”

You’ve already taken one of the boldest risks in starting your business. Don’t let fear dictate what comes next.

Partner with someone who knows the road ahead—and can help you navigate it.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

Purpose – Life After the Sale Part 3

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The third component of life after the sale is Purpose – “Having as one’s intention or objective.”

Many exit planning advisors discuss the three legs of the exit planning stool – business readiness, financial readiness, and personal readiness. In our previous two articles, we focused on two of the “big three” components of a successful life after the sale, activity and identity. The third is purpose.

So many advisors point to the 75% of former owners who “profoundly regret” their transition, and say it’s because they didn’t make enough money. To quote Mr. Bernstein in the great film Citizen Kane, “Well, it’s no trick to make a lot of money…if all you want is to make a lot of money.”

I’ve interviewed hundreds of business founders. When asked why they started their companies, by far the most common answers are about providing for their families and having control of their future. Only a very small percentage say “I wanted to make a lot of money.”

Decades of Purpose

Purpose - Life After the Sale Part 3So what kept them working long hours and pushing the envelope after they had reached primary, secondary, and even tertiary financial goals? Sure, non-owners may chalk it up to greed, but Maslov’s hierarchy of needs drifts away from material rewards after the first two levels. Belonging, Self-Esteem and Self-Actualization may all have a financial component, but money isn’t the driver.

For most owners, the driving motivation is this thing they’ve built. The company has a life of its own, but it’s a life they bestowed. They talk about the business’s growing pains and maturity. Owners are acutely aware of the multiplier effect the success of the company has on employees and their families. In a few cases, that multiplier extends to entire towns.

That’s the purpose. To nurture and expand. In so many cases every process in the business was the founder’s creation. He or she picked out the furniture and designed the first logo. This aggregation of people breathes and succeeds on what the owner built.

That’s why so many owners still put in 50 or more hours a week, long after there is any real need for their presence. This thing they created is their purpose.

Life After the Sale

Unsurprisingly, so many owners find that 36 holes of golf each week, or 54, or 72, still isn’t enough to feel fulfilled. You can get incrementally better, but it doesn’t really affect anyone but you. Building a beautiful table or catching a trophy fish brings pride and some sense of accomplishment. Still, it never matches the feeling of creating something that impacts dozens, scores, or hundreds of other human beings.

That’s why we focus on purpose as the third leg of the personal vision. In the vast majority of cases, it involves impacting other people. Any owner spent a career learning how to teach and lead. Keeping those skills fresh and growing is a substantial part of the road to satisfaction.

Purpose in your life after the sale may involve church or a community service organization. It could be serving on a Board of Directors or consulting for other business owners. It might be writing or speaking. Purpose doesn’t require a 50-hour week, but it does require some level of commitment, and the ability to affect the lives of others.

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

My Interview with Jerry West on Management

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I once had the thrill of interviewing Jerry West on management. He was “The Logo” for the NBA, although back then they didn’t advertise him as such. Only the Laker followers knew for sure.

In 1989 the “Showtime” Lakers were coming off back-to-back championships.  Pat Riley was a year away from his first of three Coach of the Year awards. Jerry was the GM. Many people don’t know this, but starting when Jerry West was drafted in 1960 until he stepped out of the GM role in 2002, the Lakers only missed the playoffs twice. Those seasons (74-75 and 75-76) were the only two seasons out of 42 that West was not on the Laker payroll.

In 1989 I was enrolled in Pepperdine’s Executive MBA program. Our class assignment was to interview a top executive with whom we had no previous relationship or introduction about his management style.

Mr. West Returns the Call

I was an avid Laker fan, and I thought “He can only say no.” So I called the Forum, asked for West’s office, and left him a voicemail. A few hours later our receptionist called me and said “One of your friends is goofing around on the phone. He says he’s Jerry West.” Obviously, I took the call.

We met in his office underneath the stands in the Forum. It may have been 12 x 12 feet, but the magnetic boards lining the wall made it seem much smaller. Each board had an NBA team’s name on top, and magnetic placards for every player currently on that team.

I asked Jerry about how he approached the management of the Lakers. He gestured to the boards. “My job as General Manager is to put the best team on the floor that I can. I look at these boards every day and think who might be better on the Lakers? Then I look at other teams and think who they might have that will convince the team with the player I want to give him up.”

He went on to say that he was sure that business executives weren’t as singularly focused as he was. He thought about the Lakers from the moment he woke until going to sleep at night. I didn’t try to convince him that he matched the profile of many small business owners.

Jerry West on Management

As a manager, Jerry said that he believed that if you hired someone to do a job, then you needed to step back and let them do it. Pat Riley was a broadcaster with no coaching background. Jerry said that the problem with experienced coaches is that they had already been fired once. West took a flyer on Riley, but to appease the media he agreed to sit on the bench to lend advice.

“It was crazy. Riley had no idea what he was doing. He’d call to put guys in the game that we had cut the week before or to sub in guys who were already on the floor. I lasted about three games on the bench. I had to go to my office and let him learn on his own. The alternative was that I’d kill him.”

One poignant moment was when he discussed his family. I can’t imagine the burden being in the public eye brought with it. He talked about his children being bullied on the playground because the team was on a losing streak. Even worse was having his wife accosted in the supermarket aisle by a fan who was incensed over a trade.

One of his greatest tips was when we discussed keeping things in perspective. He showed me two file folders in his desk drawer. “One of these has the most complimentary of the letters I get when the team is doing well. They tell me I’m a genius. The other folder is the worst letters I get when the team is doing poorly. You can guess what they think of me.”

“Whenever we are on a streak, good or bad, I pull one of the letters from the file when we were doing the opposite. It reminds me that it wasn’t always the way it is today, and it will swing back sooner or later.”

Looking to the future

I wasn’t supposed to discuss the Lakers, but the fan in me couldn’t help it. Jerry had just drafted a guy from Yugoslavia that no one had heard of. This was well before European players dominated the top draft picks. I had to ask him about his choice.

“Wait until you see him,” West said. “Seven feet tall and he can pass the ball like Magic.”

He became the starting Laker center for the next seven years. Then Jerry West traded Vlade Divac to the Charlotte Hornets on draft night of 1996 to get the 13th pick, a teenager named Kobe Bryant.

Always looking at those boards.

We’ll miss you, Jerry.

 

 
John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.

The House of Gucci Succession Plan

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By now, you may have seen the movie House of Gucci. Lady Gaga and Al Pacino star in the true depiction of the Gucci family.

The Gucci brand started with two brothers who own the family business equally. Each brother had a son, and each son was to inherit the empire. One of the sons was a ne’er-do-well, who always attracted and found trouble. Despite nobody ever giving him a chance, the viewer could tell his successor ownership was doomed. The other son married the woman who was played by Lady Gaga. The story progresses through time as one of the fathers die and the other goes to jail while the wife rises to power and greed. To complicate the succession plan, lavish lifestyles, poor business decisions, children and divorce ensue.

The Gucci brand has always been iconic, and it remains so today. The movie describes the struggle between the two brothers and their ideas on how to grow the brand. One brother wants to expand into shopping malls across the world, while the other brother believes the idea of having a Gucci store in a mall is despicable. The two brothers who have these opposing views show how difficult it is running a family business with 50-50 ownership.

The two sons are the on-again/off-again heir apparent to the fortune, and eventually they will run or have a hand in running Gucci. The ne’er-do-well son struggles and is really off-base with his ideas, which are very inconsistent with the brand, and he lacks any sense of training or sense of how to run a business. Subplots in the movie describe how the other stakeholders attempt to circumvent his ownership and ultimately the rest of the family.

The other brother is smart, but he has a blind spot in that he has never had to struggle financially. He has never had to know what it was like to lack resources. His approach to management and growth are flawed because of the company culture and his paradigm. The influence of his wife and others around him also taint the management and success of a family run business. He lives lavishly, incurring personal expenses that he funds through the company.

Subterfuge and infighting ultimately become the demise of the family. The business survived but it was sold off for pennies on the dollar and was turned into a publicly traded company and as a result, the family no longer owns the business.

Clearly, the Gucci’s would have benefited from a team of exit planning advisors to help them navigate these waters! Indeed, there was no training of the sons, there was no alignment by the brothers, there was no dealing with the other stakeholders in the family. There was no financial planning, nor personal planning. Other than the brand quality, there was no development of cultural consistency or business attractiveness. There was a lack of management succession, planning and delineation of who does what. Sadly, there are many family run businesses that much less well known, but who lack the kind of exit planning that is needed to successfully pass along the business to the next generation.

House of Gucci illustrates how important it is for families to pay attention to succession and exit planning. I give this movie two thumbs up for the entertainment value of the movie, but two thumbs down on exit planning!

Mark Hegstrom is Certified Exit Planning Advisor and helps business owners to plan for what may be their single largest lifetime transaction: the transfer of their business. Get started by completing an exit readiness Assessment for yourself. Mark is Managing Partner at Business Owner Succession Strategies (BOSS). He currently serves as President of the Exit Planning Institute -Twin Cities Chapter.
 

Do You Suffer From Decision Addiction?

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Do you suffer from decision addiction?

The typical business owner lives on dopamine.  According to WebMD:

Dopamine is a type of neurotransmitter. Your body makes it, and your nervous system uses it to send messages between nerve cells. That’s why it’s sometimes called a chemical messenger. Dopamine plays a role in how we feel pleasure. It’s a big part of our uniquely human ability to think and plan.

Feeling the Rush

That’s what business owners do; think and plan. Their lives are a chain of thought processes that go “What if I do this? How will it affect the business? Then what would I do next? What would be the effect of that?”

An owner’s brain is trained to generate dopamine. That “What if? What if? What if?” chain is pleasurable. It’s the same neurotransmitter that is triggered by nicotine and alcohol, and the craving for that dopamine rush is the driving force of addiction.

That is why so many owners complain that their employees can’t make decisions and can’t think critically. They understand consciously that their businesses would run better if they groomed decision-makers, but unconsciously they are addicted to making decisions.

decision addictionEvery time an employee asks, “What should I do about this, boss?” there is a little rush. It’s like an old cartoon. The good angel is sitting on one shoulder saying “Make them go through the thought process themselves.” The little horned devil is on the other shoulder saying “Go ahead. Tell him just this once. It’s faster, and it feels good.”

Answer given. Another challenge surmounted. Pop! The little rush.

When the Rush Gets in the Way

Advisors are frequently frustrated by a client’s reluctance to implement their advice. They spend time and effort developing a course of action, and more time and effort explaining it to the client. The business owner client listens, agrees, and then does…nothing.

“I’m too busy running the business,” is a frequent excuse. What is really happening is that the owner is too busy feeding his or her dopamine rush. Owners are more likely to take action on their own decisions. Implementing someone else’s idea is antithetical to why they became entrepreneurs in the first place.

It feels good to be needed; to be the one who knows. Unfortunately, the more you run your business based on owner centricity™ the harder it is to sell, and the less it is worth. Like any addiction, it’s a tough habit to break

Breaking Decision Addiction

This is where I should offer a twelve-step program for breaking yourself of decision addiction. That’s pushing the analogy just a bit too far. I can. however, offer one tip that can get you started on the road to a more valuable company and more peace of mind for you.

Offer an enticing incentive for anyone making a decision for you. It should be instant, and worth a little effort. One possibility is to keep a stock of ten or twenty dollar bills in your desk. Anyone who comes to you with an issue and a proposed answer gets a bill.

The answer had to be sensible and practical. You could require it to be SMART (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Resourced and Timely,) or you could set your standards. You will, of course, have to retain the final say over what qualifies. No one should earn a ten-spot for deciding whether to make the background on a flyer blue or yellow.

An answer doesn’t have to be the answer, but if it is unworkable, at least you have the opportunity to communicate your thought process, and at least the employee tried. He or she should still get the incentive for an honest effort.

Try it. You may be surprised at how much better it feels than that little bit of decision addiction.

This is an excerpt from my upcoming book The Exit Planning Coach’s Handbook, coming this fall. 

John F. Dini develops transition and succession strategies that allow business owners to exit their companies on their own schedule, with the proceeds they seek and complete control over the process. He takes a coaching approach to client engagements, focusing on helping owners of companies with $1M to $250M in revenue achieve both their desired lifestyles and legacies.